Join me in the learning. What you do today can be remembered for life. What Ashwath is learning may be better than helpful. As an observer and a co-actor take life with pleasure. Pain is also a process of learning. Similarly Lucy also is helping me learn. The story I read.... A female mate was hit by a car as she swooped low across the road, and the condition was soon fatal. Her male mate brought her food and attended her with love and compassion. He brought her food again, but was shocked to find her dead. He tried to move her - a rarely seen effort. Aware that his mate was dead and would never come back to him again, he cried with adoring love......and stood beside her with sadness and sorrow. And many people think animals and birds don't have brains or feelings.